This is exactly me. I get frustrated with myself
I think sometimes it becomes even more to sort and manage, when it should be helping itās actually hindering.
Some of the ways people manage their money that you see on here absolutely blows my mind, but youāve got to do what works for you.
Culling the cards is the next step once I move.
Should probably also close all, or at least remove all accounts from my phone except two (monzo for folks who pay me and a main account).
Is their a self exclusion service like there is for gambling for credit products?
I believe you can add friction using a cifas marker but if you could exclude yourself for 3-x months without it being seen as a negative for credit score (as you are taking control) I think it would be useful especially for those addicted to the Klarna checkout sort of system.
I am not saying you are a credit fiend, just a question for general folks out there as your post made me think about others with serious impulse control.
I get this a lot with banks. I like something from one bank and really want to try it, but then the grass is often greener and/or I get bored quickly.
As I used YNAB Iām definitely not a pots person, but I do think being on these forums makes you want to move banks more than normal.
Then I sometimes just think I should stick with one bank, same as my other half, build up a relationship with them, joint account, credit cards etc leading to a mortgage and just be⦠well, a grown up (feeling).
I wish there was a bank I liked that had everything: current account, joint accounts, savings, credit card, mortgages. With a nice app. And preferably instant notifications. And no fees overseas (I still do not understand why banks continue to charge them).
My other half is with HSBC, and he likes them. Unfortunately try as I might they only offer me a basic account with no real reasoning and even my local branch manager canāt figure it out.
I think I know.
I could apply friction but Iād quite simply get around it by attending the appointments/calls and sorting it out etc.
Itās possible Iād still be using Monzo if I hadnāt lost my white metal card (then someone posting it to me
with my licence).
I canāt deal with the coral ![]()
Definitely some FOMO going on for myself with the options available.
I try this but I fail. Most if not all my friends have always had the same bank account, possibly adding monzo to keep up with the trend.
This 100%!
I may give Chase a whirl, it does essentially have everything Iād need - sub accounts, notifications, upcoming notifications, no lending (for now) which I think might help.
From account opening 3 years ago Iāve not used it much at all. It even has great merchant data and non caps across the app ![]()
Just not sure why I canāt bond with it, maybe due to not trying hard enough - but I donāt feel I should need to force myself.
Itās possibly layout of the app.
What is it that works for you/you want the bank/s to do?
Well thatās the big question isnāt it. My mind wonāt settle on what it wants and thatās the problem.
Starling + Monzo bill split functionality would tick near every box (for todayās thoughts).
Possibly.
But then you get first direct which from a design view is great, but as others mention, the Home Screen account balance vs available balance issue doesnāt work for me.
And then tasks like checking direct debits, editing payees or setting standing orders etc isnāt as direct as it should be.
Iād have to check, but to set a standing order i think it has to be to a new payee, so I had duplicate payees in the list for the same bank.
Theyāve some way to go but theyāre getting there.
I know ![]()
I tend to use revolut card out and about but not for salary and bills as I think itās barrier for credit options as turnover isnāt reported anywhere unlike high street banks.
RBS - salary
HSBC - some bills as I was curious of balance after bills - just canāt get on with the notifications format (not important to most but itās bugs me)
Revolut - out and about spending
Usually physical card lately.
Get them to sign up from a referral and theyāll get that sweet, sweet free money.
Revolut doesnāt hard check.
Oh heās mastered it.
2 your Wrong you can only transfer money out of Monzo via your personal acct
Nope.