Struggling to get categories working for me. How do you manage it?
I have a Monzo account, Joint account and Amex which is linked. The wife has a Monzo account and an external account.
So a bills pot in the joint gets topped up by both of us on payday, and DD for shared costs comes from that for the bills we need to pay.
Easy - one ‘transfer’ to ‘bills’, and DD ‘bills’ expense categorisation.
Use the amex card a transaction is an; ‘expense’ or ‘eating out’ / etc, but then a credit to the amex is a ‘transfer’? Or ‘finance’? What is finance - conceptually a transfer is payment between accounts so credit repay is finance, but that then shows a credit to offset the expense in the amex so there is no spending - so a credit payment is a transfer so it’s excluded from spending. But transfers is flooded with transactions between bills put and the joint account for the DDs, can’t transfers between accounts and virtual pots be excluded (they aren’t actually going out the account so why show them!).
Feels like the budgets are a total mess.
What do you categorise as ‘family’? Surely these are expenses like clothes which is shopping or entertainment etc?
Transfers to the wife’s account from joint, are these expenses as they leave “our” accounts (i.e. joint account, our amex and my account) or transfers to a third party (the wife).