Headspace and similar apps

I finally took the plunge to use my Headspace app provided free under my Revolut plan.

The bedtime activity last night sent me to sleep within 20 minutes or so, usually takes me hours.

Then this morning, the self worth and work activity really hit hard :sweat_smile:

Unsure if it’s the same for everyone but it does really make you think.

Hopefully continues to work as effectively.

Anyone else using this, or any similar apps?

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Headspace is a brilliant app. I also use the Endel app for sleep sounds.

Mindfulness has been a lifesaver for me, especially at work, where my stress levels were reaching critical and my health was taking a hit.

I’d also recommend the book ā€œThe Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***ā€ by Mark Manson. Silly title aside, it’s actually a good book that will help you to change how you see the world for the better.

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Anything that helps remove heartbreak I’m game :sweat_smile:

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I’ve never got into them really, but always impressed by those who it works for.

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It’s called ā€˜practice’ because that’s what you need to do. Practice it when you’re OK so you can do it when you’re not, and really need it. A bit like a footballer taking hundreds of penalties on the empty training ground so it’s second nature to them when it’s the World Cup Final and millions are watching.

When it works for me I love it, but my brain is and always has been like speaking spaghetti. So I really need to practice more but…

I have found group medication/mindfulness the best. Something about not being able to go ā€œsod this!ā€ and stop is really helpful. I have often been to my local Buddhist temple for the beginner’s night for this, but there are lots of non-religious groups around. Again, this helps with your practice when you’re on your own and in need. (Although I have Buddhist tendencies I’m not into organised religion at all, and my local group are not preachy at all, you don’t even need to stay for the cuppa afterwards if you don’t want to!)

As for apps. I found the man’s voice in Headspace to Jamie Oliver for me. I don’t need the guide to be my mate! Calm is good but they seem to explain why it’s useful before every mediation and I don’t need that - I’m convinced! Balance is really good and it’s free for a year, or at least was until recently.

There are also a load of simple timer and/or Buddhist-based apps that are good. Plum Village is free and Buddhist, but there are loads of meditations on there which are about love and kindness and not about how great Buddhism is. If you’re not totally anti it’s worth a look.

Practice. It really does work at making life calmer. And it doesn’t have to be a big thing. From practicing using the apps I find that I can switch into it for 30 seconds here, 5 minutes there when I’m sat in a queue, waiting for an appointment, stood outside a shop waiting for my family, and especially when I’m out for a walk - I love dividing on each step, and consciously noticing my surrounding. You’re not in a trance, you’re mindful of your situation in the here and now, so you can prescribe anywhere.

I’m a better person in myself for persevering with this practice.

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Eh?

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Ha! Autocorrect does its thing… Edited to ā€˜life’ which is what I obviously meant. :smiley:

Any mindfulness activity will ultimately lead to that.

I’m unsure if there are specific exercises.

Has your intuition let you down? :slightly_smiling_face:

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Breathing exercises don’t really help me either.

Leaves on a Stream helps me to offload and reduce stress. It originates from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), which is used alongside CBT by psychologists.

As for intuition, I’m not sure, I’d imagine having a clear mind helps, so any mindfulness will.

Wrong about a person or something else? We’ve all been there, humans can be quite disappointing.

The bigger question is whether these techniques and methods will even work for you. You’ve said that you’ve done some mindfulness, so maybe it will. Some people just can’t do it, you need a very visual mind - some people just can’t visualise.

In fact, I know at least one person who literally can’t visualise anything in their mind. You could describe an object to them and ask them to imagine it, and they just can’t. Apparently, millions of people can’t visualise in their mind, it’s a thing.

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