# Unhappy about recipient list from contacts - a suggestion **URL:** \ **Category:** Monzo Chat\ **Created:** [17 February 2019 23:05 UTC](https://community.monzo.com/t/unhappy-about-recipient-list-from-contacts-a-suggestion/60483 "2019-02-17T23:05:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 3
**Author:** ![awjdean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@awjdean](https://community.monzo.com/u/awjdean)\ **Post date:** [18 February 2019 01:12 UTC](https://community.monzo.com/t/unhappy-about-recipient-list-from-contacts-a-suggestion/60483/3 "2019-02-18T01:12:58Z")
> [@woz](#): > > So I have a suggestion > When setting up the app it should be possible to select those contacts I wish to be included _whether or not they have an account_ - because at this stage in theory I can’t or shouldn’t be able to know who has a Monzo account. > The person setting up the account (me) will then have the option of sending an email and/or notification/and/or text to those they choose to share their status as a monzo account holder, and in which there is a clickable link. > Each selected contact will get an email/text (and a notification through the app if they are a monzo client, but I won’t know who gets what) which says I want to add them as a recipient. > Then the following happens: > If they don’t want to share their status (and don’t wish to appear in my list even if they have monzo) they ignore it and do nothing or click on I don’t want to share my status as a monzo account holder with this person. At this stage they know it’s me but I’ve chosen to share that with them actively. > Having read the email/text if they don’t have monzo they do nothing or click on "this doesn’t apply to me, the sender will not be informed of your response. (they did not get a notification because they don’t have a monzo account) > If they are happy to share their monzo status they click the OK link. > It sounds more complicated than it is and needs some refinement I’m sure, but it overcomes my issue from both ends. I completely understand why someone wouldn’t want to see some of their phone contacts on their Monzo and/or let some of their phone contacts see that they have Monzo. ## Issues with suggestion in post - This suggestion does seem an overly complicated way of achieving that goal. - All the emails/texts/notifications could also come across as spammy and annoying and have the feeling of a social media site rather than a bank. - Furthermore, I think this implementation would discourage people from going through the process of accepting/requesting access to see other people’s Monzo accounts causing loads of Monzo’s “network” features to be redundant. ## Alternative solution - I think a better solution would be to initially allow Monzo access to all your contacts but also have an ability to “Block” a Monzo contact. - Monzo contacts would be blocked the same way as non-Monzo contacts are currently deleted. - After a contact is blocked, they would not appear in your Monzo contact list and you would not appear in their Monzo contact list. - A blocked contact would still appear in Nearby Friends and you could still send money to them using Pay Anyone (but not using normal Monzo-to-Monzo payments). - There would be a section in the app (probably in the profile section of the Account tab) where you can view contacts you’ve blocked, but not contacts who have blocked you (like blocking someone on Facebook, Snapchat etc…). You could also unblock people in this section. I think this privacy issue is something Monzo should try to solve in the medium term since people are more and more worried about their privacy these days and it could put some off Monzo. Additionally I can see related serious issues occuring (eg: abusive relationship using Monzo as a method of contact). _NB: great detail in your post. In the future it might be worth using bullet points with spaces inbetween to make your post easier to read._ --- _[View the full topic](https://community.monzo.com/t/unhappy-about-recipient-list-from-contacts-a-suggestion/60483)._